Sian Johnson, Sexologist, Sex Therapist & Tantric Pleasure Coach

Sexual dysfunction and sexual dissatisfaction and touch deprivation can happen to any of us, at any stage of life. I specialise in bringing together sexology, talking therapy, tantric massage and touch therapy to support midlife men and couples to (re)discover the delights of sexual satisfaction, deeper connection in intimacy and experience personal transformation.

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Navigating any stage of life can come with it’s own sexual issues but midlife can bring it’s own unique challenges especially when everything you have achieved professionally and for your family is not reflected in your sex life.

If your intimate life feels lacking despite your successes, I’m here to help. My Sex Coaching and Tantric Massage for men and couples is specifically designed for discerning men and couples your age who are looking to achieve their desires for deeper, longer and more satisfying sexual experiences.

You are not Broken! Whether you’re feeling a disconnect from your sexual self or seeking to deepen your relationships and feel a sense of empowerment and Sexual Mastery, my innovative approach offers the insights and tools necessary for substantial change. I provide targeted strategies and tailored support to help you explore the depths of your physical and psychological blocks to pleasure, get reconnected to your sexual turn ons ensuring your next steps are as fulfilling as they are exciting.

Step into a new world of innovative Tantric Sex Coaching with your very own Sexologist, that brings ancient wisdom and modern techniques together to take you on an adventure to rediscover sustained sexual arousal and greater pleasure.

It can be tough feeling alone with intimacy issues that don’t seem to have a clear solution or an easy fix. These issues can, for some men, cause low self esteem, loneliness and even depression.

Perhaps these issues are familiar to you?

Do you ever doubt whether you’re truly compatible with your partner, leaving you feeling drained and uncertain?

Have you reached a point where you feel disconnected from your own desires, wondering if something might be inherently wrong?

Perhaps the thought of separation has crossed your mind because achieving a fulfilling sex life seems unattainable within your current relationship.

Or maybe the fear of not performing well has led you to avoid dating and romantic encounters altogether.

So If You Find Yourself Struggling With The Following Problems, I Can Help with Moving From:

Premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation: into choiceful ejaculation.

Low libido: into rediscovering your own, innate sexual vitality.

Absent or unpredictable erections: into sustained sexual arousal.

Sexual inexperience: into sexual confidence.

Fear of intimacy: into relaxed and vibrant connection and pleasure.

Relationship scars or sexual trauma: into recovery and healing.

Performance anxiety: into relaxed, joyful satisfaction.

Unhelpful use of porn, or porn addiction: into healthy use of pornography and organic body-based arousal.

(Re)discover Joy and Excitement in Intimacy

Each session with me is a step toward (re)discovering the joy and excitement in your sex life. My methods Integrate Tantra approaches, Tantric Massage, Sexological Bodywork, Consent, Sex Coaching, Tantric Massage, Sexology and Psychotherapy.

I’ve immersed myself in the world of Tantra and Tantric Massage for almost a decade and I’ve embraced science-based and psychotherapeutic approaches to sex and intimacy. This journey has utterly transformed my own life and has led me to experience a level of joy and fulfilment I never before thought possible.

My approach goes beyond simply addressing sexual dysfunction — it’s about cultivating a richer, more satisfying sexual experience. I know from my own experience that rediscovering pleasure and enjoyment in sex, even (especially) in midlife, can have a hugely positive influence in all aspects of your life.

“Pleasure as a catalyst for change” is more than just a philosophy—it’s a practical approach to enhancing your life. By embracing comprehensive wholistic techniques that address the physical, emotional, and psychological aspects of sexuality, I help you not only achieve sexual fulfilment but improve your overall well-being and personal satisfaction.

What people say about working with me...

“I just completed five sessions with Sian. She is wonderful. She listens and cares. She made very useful and helpful suggestions. She helped me grow and learn in a gentle, positive way. I highly recommend Sian and the knowledge and care she brings to her sessions.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I have been seeing Sian for some years now and have thoroughly enjoyed what she offers and teaches, from Tantric Massage to Ecstatic Dancing. However, the day-long Tantric Fusion Retreat, which she designed specifically for me, took everything to a different level. Sian used the whole panoply of her experience, knowledge and techniques to guide me into a completely aroused but trance-like state driven by sexual energy. This was like nothing I had experienced before; it was the highest sustained arousal I have ever achieved. Over time, and with continued guidance from Sian, I am sure I will achieve my goal of totally self-aware transcendence.” 

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What people say about working with me...

“I have now had the opportunity to experience giving and taking sexual pleasure in healthy space, probably for the first time in my life. I now feel excited about my sexual energy.”

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What people say about working with me...

“My experience of working with you and completing the programme was unique, intriguing and eye-opening. It was a rollercoaster of a learning experience as I never thought having control over ejaculation was even possible yet alone learnable. What you have taught me is invaluable and literally life changing, and I will be forever grateful to you for this. I’d like to take this opportunity to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the whole learning experience in helping me achieve my goals and helping me feel empowered in my choices and decisions. Your teaching style is captivating, and you make the whole experience very enjoyable at the same time informative and to the point. I think what helps the experience even more is you mix your sessions with theory and practice. I would 100% recommend you without hesitation.”

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What people say about working with me...

“The Tantric Fusion Retreat is an opportunity to put the heavy responsibilities I have to one side so that I can really drop into my natural ecstatic self. I’m experiencing orgasmic energy now that I’ve never felt before. It’s taken a while, but this is what I have been seeking for years and through working with Sian I have finally found it.”

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What people say about working with me...

“The whole programme, which took me seven months to complete, has been completely transformative for me. I’m not the same person I was when I started. It’s been a huge commitment, particularly from the emotional perspective, but I can honestly say that it’s been one of the most worthwhile things I’ve ever done. I now understand why I was held back from forming relationship before. I don’t know what the future will hold, but thanks to Sian I do know that I’m now much better equipped to make the most of it!”

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What people say about working with me...

“I’d heard about Sian from a Tantra Festival where she was running a workshop and I got in touch to see if I could work with her on a problem that has been with me for 35 years. I had at this point pretty much accepted defeat. I doubted that I could fully express my masculine side ever again!

I admit, I was very nervous to begin with, but Sian helped me to relax and guided me to make choices during the session and go at a pace that was just right for me. I’m so glad I went ahead with this. The talking part was essential to begin with and the bodywork was the deepest I have ever experienced.

In just one session I got clear glimpses of how to move forward. Sian’s generosity in that session was a gift to me that I will always treasure, it was the key that unlocked me and led me through the fear to exactly where I wanted to be. It was all just life changing!

Me and my body are so grateful for the opportunity to experience what Sian and I shared.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I’d like to thank you again for a very positive experience last week. It is a testament to your skill, training and professionalism that I felt so comfortable and found it so rewarding. The intentions that were set were all fully satisfied and I’m sure there will be many other benefits. It’s obviously no coincidence that since the session I’ve have felt an increase in my sense of vitality, wellbeing and confidence. It was really good to re-connect with my masculine and sexual self in such a safe, welcoming and encouraging environment. I have challenged myself to harness this power and confidence and to carry it forward.”

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What people say about working with me...

“Sian is a wonderful guide and mentor. She made me feel at ease from the moment I arrived, and I look forward to continuing my journey under her tutelage. If you are looking to improve or fulfil your intimacy potential, then I heartily recommend Sian’s courses.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I have learnt so much during the programme and it has introduced many techniques and strategies to help address my premature ejaculation. The touch exercises have given me an understanding of the nuances of being touched and touching. I had no idea that self touch could be so fulfilling having previously thought it was always a poor second and perhaps not the real thing. I have also gained a huge amount of confidence in knowing and asking for what I want within a consensual relationship. The programme was a rollercoaster of emotions and sometimes frustration but what a great way to learn and Sian is the perfect teacher — always patient, always kind and always fun.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I want to give thanks for Thursday’s appointment. It was extremely valuable and worthwhile for me, a top-drawer experience. The business-like approach combined with a friendly atmosphere was very good. As well as the pure pleasure of the day, you carefully coached me in the areas I needed to pay attention to and identified a key area where I need to give attention.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I am learning a lot. This is not just a programme about sexual empowerment, it is about how to live a good life! This should be prescribed for every young man entering manhood.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I have been to a number of tantra teachers over the past six years. I started going to online sessions with Sian several months ago and have been back on a regular basis. She is one of the very best tantra teachers I have been to. She is friendly, accepting and helpful. She has increased my capacity to experience pleasure enormously. She listens and teaches me what I need. She has a wealth of knowledge and techniques that are so beneficial and pleasurable. She has shown me new kinds of touch that have enhanced my sensual pleasure. Every session includes new learning. What she has taught me has significantly changed my mood, my happiness, and my enjoyment of life. I highly recommend Sian. I wish all humans could learn to experience such joy and pleasure. I also realise that people can learn new ways to experience pleasure at any age!”

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What people say about working with me...

“I worked with Sian on the Sexual Empowerment Programme with 20 hours of face-to-face sessions over 7 months, plus time for homework and practice of new techniques between each session. It has been the greatest, most revelatory, confidence-building, empowering 7 months I could have ever wished for. I feel more empowered, confident, and comfortable in my intimacy than ever before and my new relationship is blossoming better than I could have wished for too.”

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Hi, I’m Sian Johnson,
Pleasure Catalyst and Sex Coach For Men and Couples

I am an international English speaking online Men’s Sex Coach and Sexologist. I also offer exclusive one to one in person Sex Coaching sessions across Europe and beyond and from my studio in Leeds, West Yorkshire, UK.

I specialise in guiding midlife men and their partners through transformative journeys in their personal and intimate lives. With nearly a decade of experience of Trauma Informed Sexology and Sex Coaching and a rich background in Consent and Psychotherapy, I bring a compassionate, holistic approach to each session.

My goal is to empower you to achieve not only sexual fulfilment but also a deeper sense of connection and joy in all aspects of your life. As a dedicated Somatic Sexologist and Tantra Pleasure Therapist, I understand the unique challenges you face and offer strategies tailored specifically to your life stage and your desires.

My programmes are carefully crafted to resonate with your individual needs, supporting you whether you’re exploring intimacy for the first time, re-entering the dating scene or looking to rekindle the spark in a long-standing relationship. For couples in midlife, I offer guidance to overcome intimacy challenges and rejuvenate your connection, ensuring that your journey together is fun, passionate and enduring.

Why Choose Me As Your Sexologist?

Expert Guidance: With specialised expertise in addressing the unique sexual challenges of midlife men, I offer a depth of knowledge and personalised coaching to support your specific journey.

Confidentiality and Trust: My practice is built on the utmost privacy and discretion, providing a safe and supportive environment for all discussions and treatments.

Proven Results: My methods have successfully transformed the intimate lives of many men, enabling not only sexual satisfaction but also greater happiness, contentment and personal growth.

What people say about working with me...

“I’m messaging you nearly a year from when we last met. I wanted to take the opportunity to extend my gratitude to you for the work we undertook together – it was foundational in my journey and the changes have been life changing in my relationships with self and others. The journey continues for myself and I have had the opportunity to undertake further learnings and courses in my development. I hope one day we can work together again.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months. The whole programme has felt life changing to be honest. All the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.

I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.

I actually feel a little sad now that the programme is coming to an end! I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I have recently completed the third and last stage of the Sexual Empowerment Programme. I started this programme because of some premature ejaculation issues. I have found this journey with her to be challenging but very positive. The first level especially is quite intense with the exercises, but you learn at your own pace and gain self-confidence. Sian gave me the knowledge and tools to be able to overcome premature ejaculation and take my sexual life to the next step. She is a very nice person, a good listener and a good teacher.”

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What people say about working with me...

“Thank you, Sian! For your help and guidance with completing the programme. I received a warm welcome, was listened to and went at a pace I was comfortable with. I learned so much and have improved my confidence, which was one of the main reasons I went ahead with it. I highly recommend working with Sian as she is passionate about what she does, and you can feel she cares.”

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What people say about working with me...

“Your Tantric Fusion Retreat affected me in many ways. The whole bodywork session was the deepest I have ever experienced and just life changing. I had accepted defeat in ever fully expressing my masculine side again! You have given glimpses of how to do it and how I have taken the wrong approach for so long. Your generosity in giving is a gift to me that I will always treasure. It was the key that unlocked me and guided me through my fears to a wonderful, wonderful experience. Thank you so, so much for that, thank you for simply being you! It was everything I hoped for.”

The Tantric Fusion Retreat

What people say about working with me...

“I went to Sian for getting help to unlock my psychological potential. Sian has vast knowledge on her domain and above all I have found her very kind and as a great listener. She listened to me patiently to get the understanding about how she can help me and then explained how we may proceed. She offers her courses both online and in person which is another great advantage for me. I highly recommend Sian if anyone having any psychophysical issues like me.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I have been to a number of tantra teachers over the past six years. I started going to online sessions with Sian several months ago and have been back on a regular basis. She is one of the very best tantra teachers I have been to. She is friendly, accepting and helpful. She has increased my capacity to experience pleasure enormously. She listens and teaches me what I need. She has a wealth of knowledge and techniques that are so beneficial and pleasurable. She has shown me new kinds of touch that have enhanced my sensual pleasure. Every session includes new learning. What she has taught me has significantly changed my mood, my happiness, and my enjoyment of life. I highly recommend Sian. I wish all humans could learn to experience such joy and pleasure. I also realise people can learn new ways to experience pleasure at any age!”

The Art of Sexual & Personal Mastery

What people say about working with me...

“My session yesterday was nothing short of amazing. Already I feel a deeper connection with myself and able to embrace my sexual energy, where before it felt like a threat. Already I can feel a change in other areas of my life. My energy has been truly cleansed.”

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What people say about working with me...

“You have helped me hugely the last three months. I’ve always had issues stripping off. Always been a bit ashamed of my body but I’ve felt so relaxed and comfortable in your presence. The last year has been a tough one for me and I’m very grateful to you for helping me pull through”

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What people say about working with me...

“Sian is a delightful person who put me at ease immediately. You can share your problems. I would totally recommend her. She behaves in an utterly professional manner, giving advice and guidance but at the same time being friendly and warm.”

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What people say about working with me...

“It felt really good to finally talk to someone and just sharing felt like a weight was lifted of my shoulders. I was dreading the session beforehand, but you put me at ease straight away and the more we did, the better I felt. The work you did about not having shame just felt great.”

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What people say about working with me...

“I’ve enjoyed working with Sian and have found the course to be very worthwhile. Sian has been great to work with: she is well informed and has many resources at her disposal. She has provided a safe environment to learn, discuss and explore without fear or prejudice. I would recommend Sian to anyone needing help with their relationship issues.” 

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What people say about working with me...

“With Sian, I have experienced most of the practices and teachings that she has now brought together in her new programme. If you join the programme with an open heart, I can honestly say that it will, if you let it, change your life for the better, for good”

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What people say about working with me...

“It was a sensual, consensual and sensational experience. What more can I say? I was taken to the edge and then beyond the boundaries of my previous experience. Thank you so much.”

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What people say about working with me...

“You were almost immediately, with gentle probing questions, able to understand me, better than myself it seemed. Time seemed to stand still as I began little by little to understand the importance of being aware much more of my sensations, thoughts and feelings.”

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Imagine stepping into a phase of life where every passionate moment is not only achieved but fully enjoyed. I invite you to explore the transformative possibilities with me. With professional guidance focused on achieving lasting results, you are supported every step of the way as you journey towards sexual mastery, increased pleasure and sexual fulfilment.

Discover the root causes of your challenges in mind, body, and spirit, allowing you to overcome erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety and diminished sexual desire.

Boost your confidence in intimate moments, mastering the skills to excite your partner (tailored to her unique preferences) and gain control over your timing.

Develop the ability to stay calm and composed under pressure, transforming anxiety into assured performance during critical moments.

Uncover the underlying issues that have been suppressing your sexual drive, reigniting your passion and restoring your vitality and enthusiasm for intimacy.

In other words, take the opportunity to discover a rejuvenated sex life where pleasure, connection and personal growth connect. 

Reach out today to discuss how we can find the perfect option for you, one that perfectly suits your needs and start your journey with me, Sian Johnson, your dedicated Somatic Sex Therapist and Tantric Pleasure Coach.

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