Sian Johnson, Sexologist, Sex Therapist & Tantric Pleasure Coach

As a sexologist I help men with Sexual dysfunction and sexual dissatisfaction. One consequence of these for many many men is touch deprivation which can happen to any of us, at any stage of life. I specialise in bringing together sexology, talking therapy, tantric massage and touch therapy to support midlife men and couples to (re)discover the delights of sexual satisfaction, deeper connection in intimacy and experience personal transformation.

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Perhaps you have been searching for a "sex therapist near me", well I am based near Leeds, United Kingdom but work online with men and couples all over the world. I am a certified somatic sexologist, sex therapist with an extensive background in tantric pleasure coaching.

Navigating any stage of life can come with it’s own sexual issues but midlife can bring it’s own unique challenges especially when everything you have achieved professionally and for your family is not reflected in your sex life.

If your intimate life feels lacking despite your successes, I’m here to help. My Sex Coaching and Tantric Massage for men and couples is specifically designed for discerning men and couples your age who are looking to achieve their desires for deeper, longer and more satisfying sexual experiences.

You are not Broken! Whether you’re feeling a disconnect from your sexual self or seeking to deepen your relationships and feel a sense of empowerment and Sexual Mastery, my innovative approach offers the insights and tools necessary for substantial change. I provide targeted strategies and tailored support to help you explore the depths of your physical and psychological blocks to pleasure, get reconnected to your sexual turn ons ensuring your next steps are as fulfilling as they are exciting.

Step into a new world of innovative Tantric Sex Coaching with your very own Sexologist, that brings ancient wisdom and modern techniques together to take you on an adventure to rediscover sustained sexual arousal and greater pleasure.

Why Choose Me As Your Sexologist?

  • Expert Guidance:
    With specialised expertise in addressing the unique sexual challenges of midlife men, I offer a depth of knowledge and personalised coaching to support your specific journey.
  • Confidentiality and Trust:
    My practice is built on the utmost privacy and discretion, providing a safe and supportive environment for all discussions and treatments.
  • Proven Results:
    My methods have successfully transformed the intimate lives of many men, enabling not only sexual satisfaction but also greater happiness, contentment and personal growth.
It can be tough feeling alone with intimacy issues that don’t seem to have a clear solution or an easy fix.

These issues can, for some men, cause low self esteem, loneliness and even depression.

Perhaps these issues are familiar to you?

  • Do you ever doubt whether you’re truly compatible with your partner, leaving you feeling drained and uncertain?
  • Have you reached a point where you feel disconnected from your own desires, wondering if something might be inherently wrong?
  • Perhaps the thought of separation has crossed your mind because achieving a fulfilling sex life seems unattainable within your current relationship.
  • Or maybe the fear of not performing well has led you to avoid dating and romantic encounters altogether.

So If You Find Yourself Struggling With The Following Problems, I Can Help with Moving From:

  • Premature ejaculation or delayed ejaculation: into choiceful ejaculation.
  • Low libido: into rediscovering your own, innate sexual vitality.
  • Absent or unpredictable erections: into sustained sexual arousal.
  • Sexual inexperience: into sexual confidence.
  • Fear of intimacy: into relaxed and vibrant connection and pleasure.
  • Relationship scars or sexual trauma: into recovery and healing.
  • Performance anxiety: into relaxed, joyful satisfaction.
  • Unhelpful use of porn, or porn addiction: into healthy use of pornography and organic body-based arousal.

(Re)discover Joy and Excitement in Intimacy

Each session with me is a step toward (re)discovering the joy and excitement in your sex life. My methods Integrate Tantra approaches, Tantric Massage, Sexological Bodywork, Consent, Sex Coaching, Tantric Massage, Sexology and Psychotherapy.

I’ve immersed myself in the world of Tantra and Tantric Massage for almost a decade and I’ve embraced science-based and psychotherapeutic approaches to sex and intimacy. This journey has utterly transformed my own life and has led me to experience a level of joy and fulfilment I never before thought possible.

My approach goes beyond simply addressing sexual dysfunction — it’s about cultivating a richer, more satisfying sexual experience. I know from my own experience that rediscovering pleasure and enjoyment in sex, even (especially) in midlife, can have a hugely positive influence in all aspects of your life.

“Pleasure as a catalyst for change” is more than just a philosophy—it’s a practical approach to enhancing your life. By embracing comprehensive wholistic techniques that address the physical, emotional, and psychological aspects of sexuality, I help you not only achieve sexual fulfilment but improve your overall well-being and personal satisfaction.

Hi, I’m Sian Johnson,
Pleasure Catalyst and Sex Coach For Men and Couples



I am an international English speaking online Men’s Sex Coach and Sexologist. I also offer exclusive one to one in person Sex Coaching sessions across Europe and beyond and from my studio in Leeds, West Yorkshire, UK.
I specialise in guiding midlife men and their partners through transformative journeys in their personal and intimate lives. With nearly a decade of experience of Trauma Informed Sexology and Sex Coaching and a rich background in Consent and Psychotherapy, I bring a compassionate, holistic approach to each session.
My goal is to empower you to achieve not only sexual fulfilment but also a deeper sense of connection and joy in all aspects of your life. As a dedicated Somatic Sexologist and Tantra Pleasure Therapist, I understand the unique challenges you face and offer strategies tailored specifically to your life stage and your desires.

My programmes are carefully crafted to resonate with your individual needs, supporting you whether you’re exploring intimacy for the first time, re-entering the dating scene or looking to rekindle the spark in a long-standing relationship. For couples in midlife, I offer guidance to overcome intimacy challenges and rejuvenate your connection, ensuring that your journey together is fun, passionate and enduring.
Imagine stepping into a phase of life where every passionate moment is not only achieved but fully enjoyed. I invite you to explore the transformative possibilities with me. With professional guidance focused on achieving lasting results, you are supported every step of the way as you journey towards sexual mastery, increased pleasure and sexual fulfilment.

  • Discover the root causes of your challenges in mind, body, and spirit, allowing you to overcome erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety and diminished sexual desire.
  • Boost your confidence in intimate moments, mastering the skills to excite your partner (tailored to her unique preferences) and gain control over your timing.
  • Develop the ability to stay calm and composed under pressure, transforming anxiety into assured performance during critical moments.

Uncover the underlying issues that have been suppressing your sexual drive, reigniting your passion and restoring your vitality and enthusiasm for intimacy.
In other words, take the opportunity to discover a rejuvenated sex life where pleasure, connection and personal growth connect.
Reach out today to discuss how we can find the perfect option for you, one that perfectly suits your needs and start your journey with me, Sian Johnson, your dedicated Somatic Sex Therapist and Tantric Pleasure Coach.
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