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Free Gifts from Sian Johnson
Mens Sex Coach, Sexologist and Wheel of Consent Trainer

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From the Bedroom to the World: Sex as a Key to Unlocking Your True Manhood

This short, powerful read invites men into a new conversation about sex, masculinity, and connection. It explores how sexual dissatisfaction can be a doorway into emotional healing, greater self-awareness, and a more grounded, embodied form of leadership. With warmth and clarity, this book offers a compassionate path toward confidence, intimacy, and authentic manhood — beyond performance and pressure, and into presence and personal power.
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8 Steps to Embodied Confidence: A Ritual for the Modern Man
(Solo or With a Partner)

This free guide is for men ready to move beyond performance and into real, embodied connection — with themselves, their bodies, and their relationships.

You'll learn how to:
Create meaningful, sensual ritual (solo or shared)
Awaken your senses and deepen presence
Let go of old patterns and reconnect with confidence
Rooted in Tantra, informed by trauma-awareness, and delivered with care — this guide is a powerful first step into the world of erotic self-mastery.

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7 Reset Moves Every Man
Needs to Know

Discover simple yet powerful techniques to regulate your nervous system and reconnect with yourself. This practical guide offers seven grounding tools to help you shift from stress and disconnection to calm and clarity. Whether you're navigating anxiety or seeking deeper embodiment, this guide is your first step toward feeling safe, seen, and supported.
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Guided Body Scan Meditation

Come home to your body — in just 6 minutes.
This short guided meditation supports you in slowing down, softening tension, and reconnecting with your body’s natural rhythm. Whether you’re new to embodiment practices or just need a pause in your day, this simple practice helps cultivate:

Greater body awareness
A sense of grounded presence
Nervous system calm
Deeper self-connection
Perfect for starting or ending your day, or anytime you need to shift from the mind into the body.

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Waking up the hands by Dr Betty Martin presented by Sian Johnson

Waking Up The Hands by Betty Martin with Sian Johnson

Here is a guided practice I use often in my sex coaching work: Waking Up the Hands. This simple yet powerful exercise is a foundational piece of the Wheel of Consent®, developed by Dr. Betty Martin. It helps reconnect you with sensation, presence, and pleasure, core skills for deeper embodied awareness and authentic intimacy.

I’ve recorded this video demonstration so you can try it for yourself. Whether you’re new to this work or have been exploring it for a while, this practice is a beautiful way to slow down and reconnect with your body.

You can learn more about my approach and the Wheel of Consent® on this page.

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I invite you next to explore my Learn Tantric Massage downloadable book and course; beautifully crafted learn-at-home resources to explore conscious erotic touch with your lover.

Check out The Advantage, my 12-week programme for highly motivated men ready to master intimacy, power, and connection.

And if you’d like support in choosing your next step, I warmly invite you to book a consultation call; I’d love to connect, and I’ll be honoured to walk beside you on the next part of your journey.

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What people say about working with me...

“I just completed five sessions with Sian. She is wonderful. She listens and cares. She made very useful and helpful suggestions. She helped me grow and learn in a gentle, positive way. I highly recommend Sian and the knowledge and care she brings to her sessions.”

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months 🙂 The whole program has felt life changing to be honest, all the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.
I actually feel a little sad now that the program is coming to an end ha 🙂 I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

“I have been seeing Sian for some years now and have thoroughly enjoyed what she offers and teaches, from Tantric Massage to Ecstatic Dancing. However, the day-long Tantric Fusion Retreat, which she designed specifically for me, took everything to a different level. Sian used the whole panoply of her experience, knowledge and techniques to guide me into a completely aroused but trance-like state driven by sexual energy. This was like nothing I had experienced before; it was the highest sustained arousal I have ever achieved. Over time, and with continued guidance from Sian, I am sure I will achieve my goal of totally self-aware transcendence.”

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months. The whole programme has felt life changing to be honest. All the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.
I actually feel a little sad now that the programme is coming to an end! I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

“My experience of working with you and completing the programme was unique, intriguing and eye-opening. It was a rollercoaster of a learning experience as I never thought having control over ejaculation was even possible yet alone learnable. What you have taught me is invaluable and literally life changing, and I will be forever grateful to you for this. I’d like to take this opportunity to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the whole learning experience in helping me achieve my goals and helping me feel empowered in my choices and decisions. Your teaching style is captivating, and you make the whole experience very enjoyable at the same time informative and to the point. I think what helps the experience even more is you mix your sessions with theory and practice. I would 100% recommend you without hesitation."

"The whole programme, which took me seven months to complete, has been completely transformative for me. I’m not the same person I was when I started. It’s been a huge commitment, particularly from the emotional perspective, but I can honestly say that it’s been one of the most worthwhile things I’ve ever done. I now understand why I was held back from forming relationship before. I don’t know what the future will hold, but thanks to Sian I do know that I’m now much better equipped to make the most of it!"

“I’d heard about Sian from a Tantra Festival where she was running a workshop and I got in touch to see if I could work with her on a problem that has been with me for 35 years. I had at this point pretty much accepted defeat. I doubted that I could fully express my masculine side ever again!

I admit, I was very nervous to begin with, but Sian helped me to relax and guided me to make choices during the session and go at a pace that was just right for me. I’m so glad I went ahead with this. The talking part was essential to begin with and the bodywork was the deepest I have ever experienced.

In just one session I got clear glimpses of how to move forward. Sian’s generosity in that session was a gift to me that I will always treasure, it was the key that unlocked me and led me through the fear to exactly where I wanted to be. It was all just life changing!
Me and my body are so grateful for the opportunity to experience what Sian and I shared.”

“I’d like to thank you again for a very positive experience last week. It is a testament to your skill, training and professionalism that I felt so comfortable and found it so rewarding. The intentions that were set were all fully satisfied and I’m sure there will be many other benefits. It’s obviously no coincidence that since the session I’ve have felt an increase in my sense of vitality, wellbeing and confidence. It was really good to re-connect with my masculine and sexual self in such a safe, welcoming and encouraging environment. I have challenged myself to harness this power and confidence and to carry it forward."

"I have learnt so much during the programme and it has introduced many techniques and strategies to help address my premature ejaculation. The touch exercises have given me an understanding of the nuances of being touched and touching. I had no idea that self touch could be so fulfilling having previously thought it was always a poor second and perhaps not the real thing. I have also gained a huge amount of confidence in knowing and asking for what I want within a consensual relationship. The programme was a rollercoaster of emotions and sometimes frustration but what a great way to learn and Sian is the perfect teacher — always patient, always kind and always fun."

“I have been to a number of tantra teachers over the past six years. I started going to online sessions with Sian several months ago and have been back on a regular basis. She is one of the very best tantra teachers I have been to. She is friendly, accepting and helpful. She has increased my capacity to experience pleasure enormously. She listens and teaches me what I need. She has a wealth of knowledge and techniques that are so beneficial and pleasurable. She has shown me new kinds of touch that have enhanced my sensual pleasure. Every session includes new learning. What she has taught me has significantly changed my mood, my happiness, and my enjoyment of life. I highly recommend Sian. I wish all humans could learn to experience such joy and pleasure. I also realise that people can learn new ways to experience pleasure at any age!”

"I worked with Sian on the Sexual Empowerment Programme with 20 hours of face-to-face sessions over 7 months, plus time for homework and practice of new techniques between each session. It has been the greatest, most revelatory, confidence-building, empowering 7 months I could have ever wished for. I feel more empowered, confident, and comfortable in my intimacy than ever before and my new relationship is blossoming better than I could have wished for too."

Professional Memberships

My Professional memberships provide CPD training and frameworks for professional practice including a code of conduct, ethics and accountability, as well practitioner listings

The Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists

The UK Council for Psychotherapy

The School of Consent

Tantralink

Psychology Today

Trusted Bodywork

Sea School of Embodiment

Free Gifts from Sian JohnsonMens Sex Coach, Sexologist and Wheel of Consent Trainer

Thank you for exploring these free offerings: what’s next?

Free Gifts from Sian Johnson
Mens Sex Coach, Sexologist and Wheel of Consent Trainer