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Hello, I’m Sian Johnson,
Sexologist
Sex Therapist
Men' Sex Coach
Wheel of Consent Trainer

ARRANGE YOUR CALL WITH ME TODAY

My passion is to bring Pleasure as a Catalyst for Change, by creating transformational experiences

that last a lifetime

After successfully raising two high-achieving children and building successful careers in the arts, managing community projects, and marketing, I found myself at midlife and at a crossroads. I knew if I was to continue my life as it was, I would head for burnout. Something needed to change, in my career, in my relationships, and in sex. I knew I needed to grow as a person, and while I’ve always had an interest in personal development, I knew it was time to take action and do something positive for me. It was time for me to focus on me and my own growth!

Embarking on a journey of personal development through Tantra was the beginning of a deeply personal healing journey into what is now a highly successful and blossoming career as a Men's Sex Coach, Wheel of Consent Trainer and Pleasure Catalyst.

I understand now that my history of difficult or unsatisfactory relationships, sexual trauma and sexual dysfunction, and overcoming these, helped me grow, not just as a person, but as an empowered sexual being, and has provided the building blocks on which I was able to venture into this amazing, innovative and forward-thinking field of Somatic Sexology. Developing my own unique one-to-one sex therapy and innovative coaching programs to support men in their desire for more pleasure and growth is both humbling and ecstatic.

Although I am a woman, I love and understand men in a way that I couldn’t possibly have done when I was younger. My femininity and my experiences in the world, as a woman, brings a unique perspective to my coaching. Qualities of confidentiality, discretion, nurture, patience, kindness and compassion exist alongside a fierce, loving desire to protect and celebrate men and mature masculinity.

Each man has a unique personal development journey towards how they want to experience sex, intimacy, desire and relationships. I am delighted to meet you as you begin yours.

With nearly a decade of experience, I have trained with some of the worlds leading authorities in this and related fields of sex and relationships, all geared to support my expertise as a Sex Coach and Pleasure Catalyst. Here are just some of them:

Jan Day Living Tantra Training
Leora Lightwoman: Levels 1-3 and assisting
ISTA – International School of Temple Arts: Level One
John Hawken: The Paths of Transformation (2-day intro)
Bondassage Professional practitioner certification.
Seani Love/School of Erotic Mysteries Practitioner Training in Shadow Tantra
The Sea School of Embodiment: Sexological Bodywork™
Betty Martin/School of Consent Like a Pro for Practitioners
John Hawken/Pathways Studios Transformational Tantra Massage Module one
Ralph Watson/SPEAKup: 1in50 Coaching Challenge
CPCAB – Yorkshire Counselling Training: Counselling Skills Levels 2 and 3
Catherine Hale: Trauma Awareness Training
Joseph Kramer: Sustained Sexual Arousal
MenSpeak: Mens Group Facilitation
Betty Martin/School of Consent: Certified Wheel of Consent Facilitator Training
Barbara CarellasUrban Tantra Practitioner Training

And my current training:

SCPTIGestalt Relational Psychotherapy (2020-2025)

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What I Believe In, Shapes How I Work

It’s important to know when you work with me, that I believe in a sex positive perspective including consent, concious kink and polyamoury / Ethical non monogamy. I support the rights of gender non conforming, trans and non binary people.

My clients know that I do all that I can to encourage them to have healthier attitudes, perspectives, beliefs and behaviours when it comes to sex and pleasure. Busting through the patriarchal binds of patriarchy. And I offer a confidential, discreet and non judgemental environment for you too, supporting you into the liberation and confidence for more authentic playful pleasure and, groundbreaking sex.

I am passionate in guiding clients reach their full potential, whether that's through my trainings and events, one to one sex therapy, or through my Tantric leasure Coaching Programmes, I believe in providing a safer space where you can fully experience and connect with your body without pressure, anxiety, expectations or judgement.

When you choose to work with me, I can help you move out of your own head, trust your body’s signals, and communicate your needs, while making choices from your body’s desires and wisdom, allowing you to enjoy the success and pleasure that has been missing from your intimate life !

As Seen In

I have been featured as an expert in my field in a variety of media publications including the following media appearances:

Podcasts
- Cornerstone Safegaurding with Chris East: Speaking about sexual shame and how this impacts teachers ability to deliver PSHE curriculums.
- The Sacred Spark The first in the podcast series with colleague Megan Riley of Mountain Tantra where we speak about into the transformative power of intimacy, connection, and self-discovery. The Podcast is available on YouTube
- Men Need Empowerment too! Part of The Kinky Coffee Break podcast series with Lex Ryder of Pleasure Rebels. Available on Spotify and on YouTube
- Sex, Men and Communication Part of the I Do Consent Podcast series with Jenn Wilson, available on Spotify and in this blog
- Healthy Masculinity and Manhood. Part of the Streamlining Diamonds Podcast Series with Peneleapaí Hosted on Holistic Radio
Public Speaking on video
Here are some of the talks I’ve given:
The Sex Lectures Manchester: 4 videos on my You Tube Channel playlist -click here to watch
And also here:
- A*** star anal pleasure
- Touch changes lives
- Shame
- Diary of a Sexual Partner Surrogate
Sex Positive Panel Discussions
- My passion for my work and this industry, means I am always looking for ways to help reach more people who are looking to improve for personal growth and to enhance their sex life. So I created and the Sunday Sex School.
- The first series of 8 events ran between January – June 2024, recordings are posted on my You Tube Channel and in this specific playlist
- A 2nd series is coming soon!
Festival Appearances
- Online: Midlife Sex Festival: https://www.midlifesexfestival.com/
- Online: Tantric Man Summit: appearance as part of a 2 day festival online
- In Person: Ecstatic Dance Festival @Osho Leela – Consent Workshops x2
- In Person: Thrive Festival, Sowerby Bridge: Living Authentically: Escaping The People Pleasing Trap Workshop
Workshops and Events
- I regularly deliver workshops and events based on the groundbreaking and transformative power of The Wheel of Consent
- View past and forthcoming events and appearance
Media Enquiries
- I welcome media enquiries and invitations for blog posts, podcasts, public speaking, and to run events and workshops from 1.5 hours to 5 days.
- Contact me at sian@sianjohnson.com

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Professional Memberships

My Professional memberships provide CPD training and frameworks for professional practice including a code of conduct, ethics and accountability, as well practitioner listings

The Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists

The UK Council for Psychotherapy

The School of Consent

Tantralink

Psychology Today

Trusted Bodywork

Sea School of Embodiment

I donate a proportion of my earnings to the Good Law Project supporting the human rights of Trans and Non Binary people in the UK.

What people say about working with me...

“I just completed five sessions with Sian. She is wonderful. She listens and cares. She made very useful and helpful suggestions. She helped me grow and learn in a gentle, positive way. I highly recommend Sian and the knowledge and care she brings to her sessions.”

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months 🙂 The whole program has felt life changing to be honest, all the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.
I actually feel a little sad now that the program is coming to an end ha 🙂 I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

“I have been seeing Sian for some years now and have thoroughly enjoyed what she offers and teaches, from Tantric Massage to Ecstatic Dancing. However, the day-long Tantric Fusion Retreat, which she designed specifically for me, took everything to a different level. Sian used the whole panoply of her experience, knowledge and techniques to guide me into a completely aroused but trance-like state driven by sexual energy. This was like nothing I had experienced before; it was the highest sustained arousal I have ever achieved. Over time, and with continued guidance from Sian, I am sure I will achieve my goal of totally self-aware transcendence.”

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months. The whole programme has felt life changing to be honest. All the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.
I actually feel a little sad now that the programme is coming to an end! I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

“My experience of working with you and completing the programme was unique, intriguing and eye-opening. It was a rollercoaster of a learning experience as I never thought having control over ejaculation was even possible yet alone learnable. What you have taught me is invaluable and literally life changing, and I will be forever grateful to you for this. I’d like to take this opportunity to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the whole learning experience in helping me achieve my goals and helping me feel empowered in my choices and decisions. Your teaching style is captivating, and you make the whole experience very enjoyable at the same time informative and to the point. I think what helps the experience even more is you mix your sessions with theory and practice. I would 100% recommend you without hesitation."

"The whole programme, which took me seven months to complete, has been completely transformative for me. I’m not the same person I was when I started. It’s been a huge commitment, particularly from the emotional perspective, but I can honestly say that it’s been one of the most worthwhile things I’ve ever done. I now understand why I was held back from forming relationship before. I don’t know what the future will hold, but thanks to Sian I do know that I’m now much better equipped to make the most of it!"

“I’d heard about Sian from a Tantra Festival where she was running a workshop and I got in touch to see if I could work with her on a problem that has been with me for 35 years. I had at this point pretty much accepted defeat. I doubted that I could fully express my masculine side ever again!

I admit, I was very nervous to begin with, but Sian helped me to relax and guided me to make choices during the session and go at a pace that was just right for me. I’m so glad I went ahead with this. The talking part was essential to begin with and the bodywork was the deepest I have ever experienced.

In just one session I got clear glimpses of how to move forward. Sian’s generosity in that session was a gift to me that I will always treasure, it was the key that unlocked me and led me through the fear to exactly where I wanted to be. It was all just life changing!
Me and my body are so grateful for the opportunity to experience what Sian and I shared.”

“I’d like to thank you again for a very positive experience last week. It is a testament to your skill, training and professionalism that I felt so comfortable and found it so rewarding. The intentions that were set were all fully satisfied and I’m sure there will be many other benefits. It’s obviously no coincidence that since the session I’ve have felt an increase in my sense of vitality, wellbeing and confidence. It was really good to re-connect with my masculine and sexual self in such a safe, welcoming and encouraging environment. I have challenged myself to harness this power and confidence and to carry it forward."

"I have learnt so much during the programme and it has introduced many techniques and strategies to help address my premature ejaculation. The touch exercises have given me an understanding of the nuances of being touched and touching. I had no idea that self touch could be so fulfilling having previously thought it was always a poor second and perhaps not the real thing. I have also gained a huge amount of confidence in knowing and asking for what I want within a consensual relationship. The programme was a rollercoaster of emotions and sometimes frustration but what a great way to learn and Sian is the perfect teacher — always patient, always kind and always fun."

“I have been to a number of tantra teachers over the past six years. I started going to online sessions with Sian several months ago and have been back on a regular basis. She is one of the very best tantra teachers I have been to. She is friendly, accepting and helpful. She has increased my capacity to experience pleasure enormously. She listens and teaches me what I need. She has a wealth of knowledge and techniques that are so beneficial and pleasurable. She has shown me new kinds of touch that have enhanced my sensual pleasure. Every session includes new learning. What she has taught me has significantly changed my mood, my happiness, and my enjoyment of life. I highly recommend Sian. I wish all humans could learn to experience such joy and pleasure. I also realise that people can learn new ways to experience pleasure at any age!”

"I worked with Sian on the Sexual Empowerment Programme with 20 hours of face-to-face sessions over 7 months, plus time for homework and practice of new techniques between each session. It has been the greatest, most revelatory, confidence-building, empowering 7 months I could have ever wished for. I feel more empowered, confident, and comfortable in my intimacy than ever before and my new relationship is blossoming better than I could have wished for too."

Hello, I’m Sian Johnson, SexologistSex TherapistMen' Sex Coach Wheel of Consent Trainer

What I Believe In, Shapes How I Work

Hello, I’m Sian Johnson,
Sexologist
Sex Therapist
Men' Sex Coach
Wheel of Consent Trainer