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Tantric Pleasure Coaching For Men 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond: Strengthen. Transform. Thrive

As an online sex therapist and men's sex coach, I specialise in Tantric Pleasure Coaching and Men's Sexual Empowerment Programmes for motivated men in their 30s 40s, 50s and beyond.

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As a Sexologist, Men's Sex Coach and Tantric Pleasure Expert, and I bring a decade of professional training and a lifetime of experience and compassion to help you achieve confidence and fulfilment in your intimate life.

Breaking News....

New Coaching Programme for Men starts January

Poster for the 12 week online course for men starts January 2026

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Why Choose a Men's Sex Coach Programme?

My unique Sex Coaching for Men programmes are designed to fit into your lifestyle, offering lifetime access to all resources, videos, and guided practices tailored for sex in your 30s, 40s and 50s and beyond. Whether you want a structured path with online sex coaching with me or in person sex coaching sessions or the flexibility of a do-it-yourself approach, you’ll be able to revisit each resource as often as you wish, allowing for continuous growth at a pace that’s comfortable for you.

I’ve poured all of my expertise from training with some of the top leaders in this field in and a decade experience of working with mens sexuality into the creation of these courses and programmes. Each programme is full of the tried and tested tools and techniques that I use in coaching men to support deep self-discovery, sexual healing and empowerment at a pace that’s right for you.

Let’s work together to support you to address your sexual challenges and (re)discover the confident, empowered, and fulfilled version of you that’s ready to step into your intimate life with new vitality and joy.

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The Advantage for Men
A comprehensive coaching journey designed for men who want to step into sexual mastery
In this 12-week programme you will:

Master your sexual energy and learn to channel it with confidence
Explore self-pleasure practices that deepen awareness and enjoyment
Break free from porn reliance and rewire your arousal patterns
Overcome erectile dysfunction (ED), premature ejaculation (PE), delayed ejaculation (DE) and low libido with proven tools and guidance
Unlock full-body orgasms and experience multiple orgasms without pressure or performance
Move past performance anxiety into lasting sexual confidence and sustained arousal
Create a more playful, ecstatic connection with your body and your relationships

This trauma-informed approach combines sex coaching, somatic sexology, and body-based practices to help you reclaim sexual vitality, long-term sexual confidence and Sexual Mastery

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The Sexual Empowerment Programme For Men and Couples - 9 month deep dive
Unlock Your Fullest Sexual Potential and Experience the Sex Life You Deserve

Through the Sexual Empowerment Programme, I’ll guide you to release old unhelpful patterns, build sexual confidence and discover powerful new ways to connect with yourself and others. Gain access to a wealth of online resources and Tantric pleasure techniques that support your growth into a sexually vibant and confident man

Examples of ssues addressed in this programme:

Erectile dysfunction (ED)
Difficulty getting or keeping an erection
Low sex drive (low libido in men)
Premature ejaculation (PE)
Delayed ejaculation (DE) or trouble finishing
Sexual stamina
Performance anxiety symptoms in men
Difficulty relating to women/partners
Recovery after sexual trauma
Late virginity / sexual inexperience
Empowered Connection with Women
Sexual shame & more

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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I start a programme?

Once you enrol, you’ll gain immediate access to an introductory session and online resources to begin exploring techniques and setting your goals.

How are the programmes structured?

Each programme provides video guides, audio practices and written materials on provenly effective practical techniques, self-reflection exercises, and advanced Tantric practices, allowing you to explore at your own pace.

Is coaching included?

Each programme offers three options, giving you the choice to tailor your experience and the level of support in a way that feels right for you

What’s included with lifetime access?

You can access a full library of resources, revisit videos, practice exercises and access any programme updates, giving you a continuous resource to support your growth over time for as long as the courses are running.

Can I participate with my partner?

The Sexual Empowerment Programme is designed for either individual men or couples, offering tools to enhance intimacy, communication and connection.

Do I need to practice techniques in front of others?

No. All one to one programmes are private, and all exercises can be practiced individually or with your partner in the privacy of your own space. The Advantage offers a group coaching program where men are invited to work together over a period of 12 weeks. These sessions follow a coaching model, are discussion based with no sexual practice online. The benefit of group coaching is men supporting each other in their sexual and personal development.

How often should I engage with the programme?

For best results, aim to engage with the materials five times a week. Integrating new practices and techniques regularly and over time allows you to experience steady growth at a pace that’s comfortable for you. Coaching sessions online or in person are scheduled usually weekly or fortnightly and the frequency can be adapted to suit your schedule

Is this programme right for me?

If you’re seeking to break through barriers, deepen intimacy, or enhance sexual confidence, these programmes are designed to offer a safer, transformative experience from any level of experience. For more information, arrange your complimentary call to discuss which programme and which option might be right for you.

What do the programmes cost?

Prices start from £300 depending on which option feels right for you. Prices are displayed on tge page for each programme

What people say about working with me...

“I just completed five sessions with Sian. She is wonderful. She listens and cares. She made very useful and helpful suggestions. She helped me grow and learn in a gentle, positive way. I highly recommend Sian and the knowledge and care she brings to her sessions.”

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months 🙂 The whole program has felt life changing to be honest, all the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.
I actually feel a little sad now that the program is coming to an end ha 🙂 I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

“I have been seeing Sian for some years now and have thoroughly enjoyed what she offers and teaches, from Tantric Massage to Ecstatic Dancing. However, the day-long Tantric Fusion Retreat, which she designed specifically for me, took everything to a different level. Sian used the whole panoply of her experience, knowledge and techniques to guide me into a completely aroused but trance-like state driven by sexual energy. This was like nothing I had experienced before; it was the highest sustained arousal I have ever achieved. Over time, and with continued guidance from Sian, I am sure I will achieve my goal of totally self-aware transcendence.”

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months. The whole programme has felt life changing to be honest. All the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.
I actually feel a little sad now that the programme is coming to an end! I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

“My experience of working with you and completing the programme was unique, intriguing and eye-opening. It was a rollercoaster of a learning experience as I never thought having control over ejaculation was even possible yet alone learnable. What you have taught me is invaluable and literally life changing, and I will be forever grateful to you for this. I’d like to take this opportunity to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the whole learning experience in helping me achieve my goals and helping me feel empowered in my choices and decisions. Your teaching style is captivating, and you make the whole experience very enjoyable at the same time informative and to the point. I think what helps the experience even more is you mix your sessions with theory and practice. I would 100% recommend you without hesitation."

"The whole programme, which took me seven months to complete, has been completely transformative for me. I’m not the same person I was when I started. It’s been a huge commitment, particularly from the emotional perspective, but I can honestly say that it’s been one of the most worthwhile things I’ve ever done. I now understand why I was held back from forming relationship before. I don’t know what the future will hold, but thanks to Sian I do know that I’m now much better equipped to make the most of it!"

“I’d heard about Sian from a Tantra Festival where she was running a workshop and I got in touch to see if I could work with her on a problem that has been with me for 35 years. I had at this point pretty much accepted defeat. I doubted that I could fully express my masculine side ever again!

I admit, I was very nervous to begin with, but Sian helped me to relax and guided me to make choices during the session and go at a pace that was just right for me. I’m so glad I went ahead with this. The talking part was essential to begin with and the bodywork was the deepest I have ever experienced.

In just one session I got clear glimpses of how to move forward. Sian’s generosity in that session was a gift to me that I will always treasure, it was the key that unlocked me and led me through the fear to exactly where I wanted to be. It was all just life changing!
Me and my body are so grateful for the opportunity to experience what Sian and I shared.”

“I’d like to thank you again for a very positive experience last week. It is a testament to your skill, training and professionalism that I felt so comfortable and found it so rewarding. The intentions that were set were all fully satisfied and I’m sure there will be many other benefits. It’s obviously no coincidence that since the session I’ve have felt an increase in my sense of vitality, wellbeing and confidence. It was really good to re-connect with my masculine and sexual self in such a safe, welcoming and encouraging environment. I have challenged myself to harness this power and confidence and to carry it forward."

"I have learnt so much during the programme and it has introduced many techniques and strategies to help address my premature ejaculation. The touch exercises have given me an understanding of the nuances of being touched and touching. I had no idea that self touch could be so fulfilling having previously thought it was always a poor second and perhaps not the real thing. I have also gained a huge amount of confidence in knowing and asking for what I want within a consensual relationship. The programme was a rollercoaster of emotions and sometimes frustration but what a great way to learn and Sian is the perfect teacher — always patient, always kind and always fun."

“I have been to a number of tantra teachers over the past six years. I started going to online sessions with Sian several months ago and have been back on a regular basis. She is one of the very best tantra teachers I have been to. She is friendly, accepting and helpful. She has increased my capacity to experience pleasure enormously. She listens and teaches me what I need. She has a wealth of knowledge and techniques that are so beneficial and pleasurable. She has shown me new kinds of touch that have enhanced my sensual pleasure. Every session includes new learning. What she has taught me has significantly changed my mood, my happiness, and my enjoyment of life. I highly recommend Sian. I wish all humans could learn to experience such joy and pleasure. I also realise that people can learn new ways to experience pleasure at any age!”

"I worked with Sian on the Sexual Empowerment Programme with 20 hours of face-to-face sessions over 7 months, plus time for homework and practice of new techniques between each session. It has been the greatest, most revelatory, confidence-building, empowering 7 months I could have ever wished for. I feel more empowered, confident, and comfortable in my intimacy than ever before and my new relationship is blossoming better than I could have wished for too."

Professional Memberships

My Professional memberships provide CPD training and frameworks for professional practice including a code of conduct, ethics and accountability, as well practitioner listings

The Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists

The UK Council for Psychotherapy

The School of Consent

Tantralink

Psychology Today

Trusted Bodywork

Sea School of Embodiment