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Sex Therapist in Leeds, Bradford, West Yorkshire & Online

In person and online Sex Therapy Sessions for Men.
Based in Pudsey, Leeds near Bradford in West Yorkshire, I offer Men's Sex Therapy in person and online with clients all over the world.

With nearly a decade of supporting men to sort out thier sex lives, I work with a range of sexual and relationship difficulties.

Arrange a free call or book in your first online session to get expert guidance.

ARRANGE YOUR FREE CONSULTATION CALL BOOK YOUR FIRST APPOINTMENT ONLINE

As a renowned Sexologist, Sex Therapist, and Tantric Pleasure Coach, I invite you to embark on a transformative journey toward sexual empowerment and fulfilment with individual, one-to-one sex therapy sessions in Leeds and online

I understand the unique perspectives of men who face sexual and relationship difficulties. I offer discreet, professional and confidential sex therapist sessions in person in Leeds, West Yorkshire and online.

Sex therapy is a talk based experience which can include a unique blend of Psychotherapy, Somatic Coaching, the latest in neuroscience and the ancient wisdom of Tantric approaches. These are specifically tailored to help you uncover the roots of your issues, whilst supporting you to (re)discover your sexual confidence in the here and now.

I use a compassionate, trauma informed, relational and supportive approach, providing a safer space for you to explore concerns such as:

Erectile dysfunction (ED) symptoms
Difficulty getting or keeping an erections
Low sex drive (low libido in men)
Premature ejaculation symptoms
Delayed ejaculation or trouble finishing
Trouble with sexual stamina
Performance anxiety
Recovery after separation or divorce
Late virginity
Sexual anorexia
Overcoming sexual trauma

Whether you’re looking to overcome past difficulties, reignite passion in your relationship(s) or are seeking personal growth, my expertise and unique support will guide you toward a more empowered, pleasurable, and fulfilled life.
Book your complimentary call to explore how tailored sex therapy sessions can benefit you and your relationship(s).

BOOK YOUR FREE CONSULTATION CALL WITH SIAN

Frequently Asked Questions

What can I expect from my first session?

It's best to begin with an initial no charge Consultation Call, and if the conversation feels like a good match, then you are invited to book your first online or in-person session. I will take this time to discuss your background, understand your goals, and outline a personalised approach to address your unique needs.

How are sessions structured?

All sessions are talk based, customised to you or your relationship(s). I will often suggest techniques for you to practice at home which can include practical techniques, therapeutic exercises, and Tantric Touch practices that can be effective for you individually or with your partner.

Do you offer virtual sessions?

Yes, I provide secure, private online sessions, allowing you and I to work together from the comfort of your own space. Each session can be recorded if you choose, which you can download for your own personal use after the call.

How long does sex therapy last?

This depends largely on where you are now, what your goals are for the future, and your commitment to the home practice in between sessions. Some people need only a few sessions, some need 6 months or more. Most men have what I call blocks to pleasure or sexual traumas, and these can take longer for some people to overcome than others. There is no right or wrong, and there is no going around these; there is only through and onwards if you want to achieve your goals.

How often should I have sex therapy?

Once a week to begin with longer spaces in between once the initial 6 weeks is completed

Can I book sessions for both myself and my partner?

Sex Therapy is focused on you as an individual, you are welcome to join the initial consultation call together and occassionally it might be helpful for you to join sessions together, but the main focus is on you.

Will I be required to practise techniques live in person, or during virtual sessions?

No, all sessions are talk-based and fully clothed. You will have access to online videos, audio, and written resources tailored to your needs for your home practice. Occasionally, being witnessed in pleasure can be a helpful practice, but this is not right for everyone and would only be recommended where appropriate, once therapy is well underway, and with full consent of all participants.

What’s your success rate?

With men who commit fully to the process of therapy, the home practices in between sessions and keep going when the going gets tough, 100% of my clients report improvement in thier sexual wellbeing and the quality of thier relationships.

Is sex therapy right for me?

If you’re looking to overcome intimacy challenges, deepen self-awareness, or improve your sexual confidence, Sex therapy can be transformative. I work with people at all levels of comfort and experience. For more questions, arrange your complimentary 30-minute call with me.

How much does sex therapy cost?

One-to-one sessions are priced at £125 per hour.

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What people say about working with me...

“I just completed five sessions with Sian. She is wonderful. She listens and cares. She made very useful and helpful suggestions. She helped me grow and learn in a gentle, positive way. I highly recommend Sian and the knowledge and care she brings to her sessions.”

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months 🙂 The whole program has felt life changing to be honest, all the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.
I actually feel a little sad now that the program is coming to an end ha 🙂 I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

“I have been seeing Sian for some years now and have thoroughly enjoyed what she offers and teaches, from Tantric Massage to Ecstatic Dancing. However, the day-long Tantric Fusion Retreat, which she designed specifically for me, took everything to a different level. Sian used the whole panoply of her experience, knowledge and techniques to guide me into a completely aroused but trance-like state driven by sexual energy. This was like nothing I had experienced before; it was the highest sustained arousal I have ever achieved. Over time, and with continued guidance from Sian, I am sure I will achieve my goal of totally self-aware transcendence.”

“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months. The whole programme has felt life changing to be honest. All the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.
I actually feel a little sad now that the programme is coming to an end! I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”

“My experience of working with you and completing the programme was unique, intriguing and eye-opening. It was a rollercoaster of a learning experience as I never thought having control over ejaculation was even possible yet alone learnable. What you have taught me is invaluable and literally life changing, and I will be forever grateful to you for this. I’d like to take this opportunity to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the whole learning experience in helping me achieve my goals and helping me feel empowered in my choices and decisions. Your teaching style is captivating, and you make the whole experience very enjoyable at the same time informative and to the point. I think what helps the experience even more is you mix your sessions with theory and practice. I would 100% recommend you without hesitation."

"The whole programme, which took me seven months to complete, has been completely transformative for me. I’m not the same person I was when I started. It’s been a huge commitment, particularly from the emotional perspective, but I can honestly say that it’s been one of the most worthwhile things I’ve ever done. I now understand why I was held back from forming relationship before. I don’t know what the future will hold, but thanks to Sian I do know that I’m now much better equipped to make the most of it!"

“I’d heard about Sian from a Tantra Festival where she was running a workshop and I got in touch to see if I could work with her on a problem that has been with me for 35 years. I had at this point pretty much accepted defeat. I doubted that I could fully express my masculine side ever again!

I admit, I was very nervous to begin with, but Sian helped me to relax and guided me to make choices during the session and go at a pace that was just right for me. I’m so glad I went ahead with this. The talking part was essential to begin with and the bodywork was the deepest I have ever experienced.

In just one session I got clear glimpses of how to move forward. Sian’s generosity in that session was a gift to me that I will always treasure, it was the key that unlocked me and led me through the fear to exactly where I wanted to be. It was all just life changing!
Me and my body are so grateful for the opportunity to experience what Sian and I shared.”

“I’d like to thank you again for a very positive experience last week. It is a testament to your skill, training and professionalism that I felt so comfortable and found it so rewarding. The intentions that were set were all fully satisfied and I’m sure there will be many other benefits. It’s obviously no coincidence that since the session I’ve have felt an increase in my sense of vitality, wellbeing and confidence. It was really good to re-connect with my masculine and sexual self in such a safe, welcoming and encouraging environment. I have challenged myself to harness this power and confidence and to carry it forward."

"I have learnt so much during the programme and it has introduced many techniques and strategies to help address my premature ejaculation. The touch exercises have given me an understanding of the nuances of being touched and touching. I had no idea that self touch could be so fulfilling having previously thought it was always a poor second and perhaps not the real thing. I have also gained a huge amount of confidence in knowing and asking for what I want within a consensual relationship. The programme was a rollercoaster of emotions and sometimes frustration but what a great way to learn and Sian is the perfect teacher — always patient, always kind and always fun."

“I have been to a number of tantra teachers over the past six years. I started going to online sessions with Sian several months ago and have been back on a regular basis. She is one of the very best tantra teachers I have been to. She is friendly, accepting and helpful. She has increased my capacity to experience pleasure enormously. She listens and teaches me what I need. She has a wealth of knowledge and techniques that are so beneficial and pleasurable. She has shown me new kinds of touch that have enhanced my sensual pleasure. Every session includes new learning. What she has taught me has significantly changed my mood, my happiness, and my enjoyment of life. I highly recommend Sian. I wish all humans could learn to experience such joy and pleasure. I also realise that people can learn new ways to experience pleasure at any age!”

"I worked with Sian on the Sexual Empowerment Programme with 20 hours of face-to-face sessions over 7 months, plus time for homework and practice of new techniques between each session. It has been the greatest, most revelatory, confidence-building, empowering 7 months I could have ever wished for. I feel more empowered, confident, and comfortable in my intimacy than ever before and my new relationship is blossoming better than I could have wished for too."

Professional Memberships

My Professional memberships provide CPD training and frameworks for professional practice including a code of conduct, ethics and accountability, as well practitioner listings

The Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers

The Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists

The UK Council for Psychotherapy

The School of Consent

Tantralink

Psychology Today

Trusted Bodywork

Sea School of Embodiment