So much of the conversation about working with men so far in this series has focussed on what's wrong. We’ve spoken about risk, safety, power, boundaries, shame, practitioner confidence, relational dynamics, erotic energy, vulnerability and the responsibility of working ethically with men’s sexuality.
And when we talk about working with men's sexuality as women practitioners, the conversation can quickly become very focussed on risk: all the things that could go wrong and everything that needs to be in place to build a safe, sustainable and successful practice.
These conversations matter. And they can obscure something equally important:
The extraordinary beauty of this work.For a decade, I have worked with men around some of the most intimate and vulnerable parts of their lives, from talking and coaching through embodied practice, intimate touch and Sexual Partner Surrogacy.
And I have witnessed what can happen when a man has somewhere to explore sexuality and intimacy without having to already know what he's doing.
When he can be awkward.
When his body doesn't have to perform.
When he can discover what he wants, ask for it, hear a no, receive pleasure, experience touch, make mistakes and try something different.
When sexuality becomes somewhere to learn rather than somewhere to succeed or fail.
This is where embodied intimacy work can become profoundly transformative.
In this 75-minute webinar, we'll explore:- why working with men around sex and intimacy can be such deeply rewarding work;
- what becomes possible when we bring the body, pleasure and lived experience into the work;
- the many ways we can work with intimacy and embodiment, with or without touch; and
- what a decade of working this intimately with men has taught me about vulnerability, connection, sexuality and change
We'll also explore the continuum from talk-based and relational practice through to embodied practice, intimate touch and Sexual Partner Surrogacy.
Curious about Sexual Partner Surrogacy? Read my blog.You don't need to want to touch clients or become a Sexual Partner Surrogate to attend. This is an exploration of a much bigger question:
What becomes possible when sexuality, intimacy and the body are allowed to become part of the work?Who is this for?Women who already work with men, or are curious about doing so, including coaches, therapists, bodyworkers, somatic practitioners, tantra practitioners, sex workers and other practitioners working around relationships, sexuality, embodiment and personal change.
If men's sexuality is already appearing in your work, or you're curious about what might become possible if it did, this webinar is for you.
The Beauty of Working With Men8th September 2026 |10:00 UK time | Online via ZoomFree to attend