(For Men – including Trans Men)

An online space for reflection, honesty, and integrity

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In a world shaped by #MeToo, the manosphere, attacks on women’s and trans rights, and the ongoing impact of the Epstein files, there are few spaces where men can come together without judgement; to reflect, to feel, and to make sense of it all.

Men don’t want to be lectured.
And many don’t want to turn away from what’s happening either.

But men are not always sure how to step in.

This space is to explore that.

What this space is

A guided, non-judgemental online session for men who want to engage honestly with what’s happening, internally and in the world around them.

A space to:

• Reflect on the impact of what’s happening, for you as a bother, father, son, partner and colleague - as a man in a difficult world
• Explore what’s being stirred emotionally, including discomfort, anger, sadness, shame, or numbness
• Look at how silence, power, and complicity operate, often unconsciously and how you can change that for yourself
• Consider what integrity and support for those around you can look like for you
• Explore what it means to stand alongside and support survivors
• This is not about having the “right” answers. It’s about being willing to understand how you can make a difference for yourself and those around you.

Why this matters

I’ve had an unprecedented response to my article,
The Epstein Files and the Question of Power (5-minute read):

People of all genders reached out, and men expressed a need for a space like this, where they can reflect, process, and make sense of what’s happening.

How men meet moments like this shapes trust, safety, and intimacy in all relationships.

In a world where power has so often been misused, developing awareness, consent, and integrity is essential.

This is how these conversations move out of the headlines and into how we choose to actually live and relate to each other as humans

And right now, this matters; reclaiming our capacity for awareness, consent, and integrity may be one of the most quietly revolutionary things we can do right now.

Who this is for

This space is for men who:

• Feel the weight of these times and don’t want to turn away
• Care about how they impact others
• Are open to self-reflection, even when it’s uncomfortable
• Want to grow in integrity, without needing to be perfect
• Are willing to listen to each other, not just speak

You don’t need prior experience.
Just a willingness to show up honestly.

What to expect

• A structured, facilitated session (90 minutes)
• Clear guidance and boundaries to support safety and choice
• Opportunities for reflection, sharing (always optional), and listening
• Trauma-aware facilitation
• A pace that supports staying within your capacity

You choose how you participate at all times.

A note on tone

This is not a space for debate, performance, or defensiveness.

It’s a space for presence, authenticity, and beginning exactly where you are.

Practical details

Tuesday 21^st April 7-9pm UK time
2 hours
Online (Zoom)

Limited places to support depth and quality of space.

To protect confidentiality, this event will not be recorded.

Please arrive on time; the room will close at 7pm.

This is a paid space. Not to create a barrier, but to support commitment, presence, and depth.

Prices:
£20 Supporter Rate
£15 Regular Rate
£10 Supported Rate
Booking Link: https://csservices.as.me/GoodMen

There’s a particular kind of courage in staying present in difficult times.
Not turning away.
Not rushing to fix.
But meeting what’s here, with honesty.

If that speaks to you, you’re welcome here.

About Sian

Sian is a Consent Trainer, Tantra teacher, Psychotherapist and is best known for her work as an intimacy coach for men.

Having worked with men over the past decade, she brings deep insight into the challenges many men face in a fast-paced world that no longer aligns with the values they were raised with.

In the current landscape, where conversations around gender, power, relationships, and identity are often polarised, many men find themselves caught between confusion, pressure, and silence. This can lead to disconnection in relationships, dissatisfaction, and a loss of direction.

Much of Sian’s work is now centred on supporting men to navigate this complexity with greater awareness, integrity, and relational skill.

This is why she has created this space, a non-judgemental environment where men can pause, reflect, and begin to find their own way forward.