Boundaries, Desires, and the Power of Choice
A Wheel of Consent Weekend Workshop
North Wales
2 – 3 May 2026
Non-residential
Book here
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“Many insights from the weekend, mostly into my shadows/inner critic and how I keep safe by denying/depriving myself of connection.”

“The team were brilliant, there at every point of the weekend. It was a wonderful space to explore.”

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Step into a weekend of exploration, embodiment, and connection.

In this two-day, in-person workshop, we’ll dive into Boundaries, Desires, and the Power of Choice through the transformative lens of the Wheel of Consent, a framework developed by Dr. Betty Martin.

Led by Sian Johnson, Certified Wheel of Consent Trainer, Sexological Bodyworker, and Psychotherapist, this 16-hour immersion offers a rich, experiential opportunity to deepen your understanding of consent, clarify your boundaries, and reconnect with your authentic desires.

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About the Workshop

This weekend is an invitation to slow down, notice what feels true for you, and discover the freedom that comes from clear and conscious choice.

Through guided exercises, reflection, and embodied practice (all touch-based work is optional and fully consent-based), you’ll explore how to give and receive with awareness, and how to communicate your boundaries and desires with confidence and care.

Held in a trauma-informed, inclusive, and supportive environment, this workshop offers both structure and spaciousness for curiosity, learning, and connection.

Open to beginners and experienced Wheel of Consent practitioners alike.

What You’ll Experience

• Embodied Learning: Deepen your understanding of boundaries and consent through direct, experiential practice.
• Authentic Communication: Learn to articulate your wants and limits with honesty and clarity.
• The Wheel of Consent Framework: Explore the dynamics of giving and receiving — Take, Allow, Serve, and Accept — and how these show up in your life.
• Self-Awareness & Empowerment: Reconnect with your body’s wisdom, noticing your “yes,” “no,” and “maybe.”
• Connection & Community: Engage in a warm, supportive group space where learning is relational, embodied, and joyful.
• Integration for Real Life: Leave with tools and insights you can apply immediately — in intimacy, work, friendships, and self-connection.

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Workshop Outline

Day 1 – Foundations: Boundaries and Awareness

• Opening circle and creating a safe container
• Waking up the hands: learning through touch and sensation
• The practice of noticing: want, willingness, and limits
• Why choosing matters more than doing
• Introduction to the Four Quadrants of the Wheel: Take, Allow, Serve, Accept

Day 2 – Desire, Power, and Integration

• Deepening into the Quadrants through practice and play
• The 3-Minute Game: learning to ask, offer, and receive
• Exploring power, privilege, and consent
• Integrating the Wheel into daily life and relationships
• Closing circle and reflection

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Why Join This Workshop?

• Expert Guidance: Learn directly from Sian Johnson, a Wheel of Consent Trainer with over 7 years of facilitation experience in consent, embodiment, and somatic education.
• Inclusive & Welcoming: Open to people of all genders including Trans and Non Binary, orientations, and relationship styles.
• Safe, Supportive, and Trauma-Informed: Exercises are guided with clarity and care; participation is always by choice.
• Practical and Transformative: Gain lifelong tools for navigating boundaries, communication, and intimacy with greater ease.
• Community & Connection: Join a growing network of Wheel of Consent practitioners and participants, with optional community practice spaces beyond the weekend.

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Practicalities

Dates: 2 – 3 May 2026
Times: 10am – 6pm each day, doors open from 9.30am
Venue: Komaia, Glan Eden, Brynford, North Wales, CH8 8LQ
Price: Super Early bird until 2nd March £ 275, Early bird until 2nd April £325, Regular price £375
What to Bring: Comfortable clothing, notebook if this supports your learning style, a closed capped water bottle, a pillow cushion or blanket and your curiosity
Language: Taught in English (both spoken and written on a flipchart stand)
Accommodation: this is a non-residential workshop and you need to arrange your own accommodation (see suggestions below).
Book now

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About the Wheel of Consent

The Wheel of Consent, developed by Dr. Betty Martin, is a simple yet profound framework that illuminates the dynamics of giving and receiving. It invites us to notice who each action is for — and in doing so, transforms how we relate to ourselves and others with more clarity, safety, and joy.

“Friendly, engaging, inclusive, mindful, safe”
“I had a great time, thanks <3”
“Loads of benefits! Thank you”

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Accessibility at the Venue

At Komaia, we want everyone who visits to feel welcome, comfortable, and supported. While we are continually working to improve accessibility across our space, we believe it is important to be open about our current facilities so that you can plan your visit with ease.

• Massage & Workshop Cabin – Access is via a single step up into the space.
• Toilet Facilities – Our toilets each have one step to enter, and we have installed a higher toilet to assist those who may find this more supportive. There is a ramp that can be used for wheelchair access over the step.
• Optional quiet space outside of the workshop space, The Hush House – Our beautiful roundhouse is located on higher ground and currently requires climbing 11 steps to reach the space.

We recognise that this does not yet meet the full accessibility we aspire to provide, and we are committed to making further improvements over time. If you have specific needs, please let us know in advance – we will always do our very best to accommodate and support you during your visit.

“Really increased my confidence to listen to my yes, no, pause, desire and ask for what I want”
“I learned that I can feel safe having a male bodied human touch me and it can be OK to touch them too with limits 😊”
“The combination of theory, games, well thought out schedule, breaks and the teams humanness, honesty and making it fun!”

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Meet the Team:

Sian Johnson (she, her):
Sian discovered The Wheel of Consent in 2018, and it revolutionised her approach to her work with men as a masseuse and sex coach. More importantly, it profoundly impacted her personal relationships, creating more understanding and grace. Sian passionately believes in the potential of The Wheel of Consent to not only enhance individual relationships but also to create a positive ripple effect out into the wider world. She brings a down-to-earth, participant-led approach to her teachings, creating a welcoming and inclusive environment for all attendees. As a white, native English-speaking woman who identifies as hard of hearing, neurodiverse and queer, Sian is committed to working through her own blind spots and actively welcomes participants who are often underrepresented in workshop spaces.

Sian welcomes invitations to teach The Wheel of Consent at festivals, trainings, and events.
www.sianjohnson.com

Sam Ntatalikas (she/they):
Sam is a certified Love, Sex & Relationship Coach who trained with Layla Martin via VITA - Vital & Integrated Tantric Approach. VITA is one of the most extensive and advanced professional certifications in the world. Sam used modern neurobiology, holistic healing, embodiment practices, inner parts work and coaching to support relationships to thrive.

“It has transformed my awareness, I‘m much more likely/able to say what I want and not do things I don’t want”
“I have a better understanding of myself and greater empathy for others. I am better able to communicate wants/needs and frame consent”

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Address and Directions

The address is Glan Eden, Brynford, CH8 8LQ

If you’ve turned right at the cross roads, you need to stop where the 40mph road sign is, if you look to your right there’s a cottage and a bungalow next to each other (if you’re coming from the opposite direction past the golf club it’s a 20mph road sign and you need to look to your left). If you look between the cottage and bungalow you’ll see a long drive with a white bungalow at the end - that’s our bungalow. If you drive down the drive to the bungalow - to the left hand side that’s where the large cabin is and there will be space to park your car.

There is also a public car park right across the road, in a dog walk area, that's 2 mins away.

About Kamaia

Nestled in the peaceful village of Brynford, North Wales, Komaia is more than just a space – it is a living sanctuary, lovingly created to nurture both people and animals.

Komaia began as an Animal Sanctuary, with a small flock of rescued hens and orphaned lambs, and grew from there.

What started as a family project soon grew into a thriving haven filled with life, friendship, and a shared purpose.

The sanctuary blossomed into a hub where wellbeing, community, and care for animals intertwined beautifully.

Today, the space continues to support animals, while focusing more deeply on wellbeing, education, and community connection.

Komaia is home to treatment rooms offering a range of massage therapies and sound healing practices.

Among the most cherished additions is The Hush House – a roundhouse lovingly crafted by Katey & Craig, the owners, from the great ash tree that once stood on the land.

Reborn into a circular sanctuary, it has become a space for meditation, breathwork, sound baths, and sharing circles – a place where people feel held, safe, and inspired.

Beside it lies The Ember Ring, a stone firepit, where countless stories have been told under star-filled skies, and marshmallows toasted in warmth and laughter.

Komaia is more than a venue – it is a sanctuary for the soul. A place where people come to rest, heal, connect, and create.

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Local Accommodation

This workshop is non-residential. Local accommodation is available for those travelling, with everything from cosy guesthouses run by dear friends to nearby hotels with spa facilities.

Here are some local options:

https://thespringfieldhotel.com
https://www.airbnb.com/l/L8a7aAAQ
https://www.holidaycottages.co.uk/cottage/90461-cimwch-farm-cottage
https://www.travelodge.co.uk/hotels/133/Halkyn-hotel?WT.tsrc=GHA_Organic&utm_campaign=GHA_Halkyn&utm_medium=GHA_Organic&utm_source=google

Make a full weekend of it!

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Treatment options

Katey offers treatments such as massage, reflexology, facials, lomi lomi massage and sound bath that can be booked before/after the workshop. (Additional charges apply) Visit https://www.komaia.com/ to discover more

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Exploring Brynford & Beyond

One of the joys of visiting Komaia is the opportunity to explore the beauty, history, and sacred sites that surround us here in North Wales. Our land is rooted in an area rich with heritage, natural wonder, and places that invite stillness, reflection, and adventure.

St Winefride’s Holy Well – Holywell (5 minutes)

Just a short drive from Komaia lies St Winefride’s Well, one of the oldest continually visited pilgrimage sites in Britain. Known as the “Lourdes of Wales,” the holy well has drawn visitors for over 1,300 years. Its waters are said to hold healing properties, and many come seeking both spiritual connection and peace of mind. The site is steeped in legend, linked to the story of St Winefride, and the small chapel and gardens surrounding the spring make it a truly special place to pause and reflect.

Greenfield Valley Heritage Park – Holywell (7 minutes)

Nestled within 70 acres of woodland and tranquil lakes, Greenfield Valley Heritage Park blends history and nature beautifully. Once home to mills and factories that shaped the area’s industrial past, the park now offers walking trails, historic ruins, wildlife, and family-friendly exploration. It’s a wonderful spot for a gentle stroll or a picnic, with plenty to discover for those curious about North Wales’ heritage.

The Clwydian Range & Offa’s Dyke (15–25 minutes)

For those who love the outdoors, the Clwydian Range – an Area of Outstanding Natural Beauty – is right on our doorstep. Its rolling hills and heather-clad summits are perfect for walking, with breathtaking views across Wales and into England. The ancient Offa’s Dyke Path, stretching along the Welsh-English border, passes through the range and offers walks of all lengths for both seasoned hikers and those seeking a gentle ramble.

Talacre Beach & Point of Ayr Lighthouse (20 minutes)

A short drive north takes you to Talacre Beach, a wide, sandy shoreline with miles of open space and dunes. Here you’ll find the striking Point of Ayr Lighthouse, a much-photographed landmark that stands proudly on the beach. It’s a place where sea, sand, and sky meet beautifully – perfect for a beach walk, paddle, or simply breathing in the salt air.

Loggerheads Country Park – Mold (25 minutes)

A beautiful riverside park with woodlands, cliffs, and caves, Loggerheads is a local favourite for walking and wildlife spotting. With its mix of gentle trails and more adventurous climbs, it’s an ideal family-friendly day out.

Moel Famau – near Mold (30 minutes)

The highest hill in the Clwydian Range, Moel Famau is crowned by the Jubilee Tower and rewards walkers with panoramic views stretching as far as Snowdonia, the Wirral, and even the Isle of Man on a clear day.

Chester – Historic Roman City (30 minutes)

Just half an hour away, Chester is perfect for a day trip. Walk along the Roman walls, explore the cathedral, and enjoy the famous “Rows” – unique two-level shopping galleries. With its mix of heritage, independent shops, and riverside walks, it’s a wonderful way to spend the day.