These invitations are much less about sex than I usually talk about in my sexologist informed content. That’s because sex, or at least good sex, only happens when there is connection. And airing requests and appreciations can help you find your way to reconnect. When we feel heard and seen and feel appreciated for we are, rather than what we do, our hearts open, our bodies relax and intimacy can rekindle. You fell in love with who they are. If you want to experience intimacy and sexual connection with your partner, prioritise appreciation, kindness and connection. So that in making time for these during the holidays, can prevent the kind of conflict that sends you to the divorce lawyer in the New Year.
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