My friend sent me an article by Chris Willx titled:
"Men Aren’t Seen as Having Problems, But as Being the Problem"
Willx’s article focuses on the struggles men face in areas like economics, health, suicide and mental health. And after reviewing the statistics on men’s quality of life and reflecting on my experience in my work with clients, I sadly find his statement accurate. And it highlights the widespread societal blind spots in Westernised cultures regarding the challenges men, particularly those in midlife, face.
Many men are grappling with issues that are often misunderstood or dismissed. Society’s shift away from traditional work, life, relationship and sexual expectations for men leaves these struggles largely unaddressed. Challenges such as career pressures, mental health concerns, relationship difficulties and sexual issues are not merely personal burdens—they are symptoms of deeper systemic problems that affect men's well-being.
Sexual dissatisfaction is one area where these broader issues often emerge. It’s not just a standalone problem; it can reflect unmet emotional needs, unaddressed stress, or a lack of connection in other aspects of life. But it can also serve as a gateway to transformation. For some men, addressing sexual well-being can unlock insights and solutions that positively impact their relationships, health, careers and personal growth.
For example, many men—whether in long-term relationships or single—experience loneliness and isolation, especially in midlife. This often manifests as disconnection in intimate relationships. Rather than viewing these challenges as insurmountable, men can learn to use them as opportunities for growth.
Societal expectations often discourage vulnerability, making it harder for men to seek help for anxiety, depression, stress or addiction. These struggles can ripple through all aspects of a man’s life, including his sexual vitality.
In my work with midlife men and couples, I help men identify the root causes of their struggles and create a safe space for them to confront these issues. I support people to see vulnerability as a path to strength and resilience, allowing them to rebuild stronger, more fulfilling connections with partners and loved ones.
The journey to better sexual well-being creates a ripple effect in many other areas of live. Men who take this step often find themselves feeling more connected, confident and equipped to navigate the challenges of midlife.
If you’ve ever felt unseen or misunderstood by your partner, family, friends, or society, know that there is a path forward. Addressing sexual dissatisfaction may be the first step toward a fuller, richer and more balanced life. Together, we can rewrite the narrative, proving that men’s challenges—your challenges—can be seen, understood, supported and transformed into a catalyst for growth and well-being.
I am passionate about helping men and couples discover pleasure as a powerful catalyst for transformational change. Are you ready to join me on this journey? Here’s how…
Many men are grappling with issues that are often misunderstood or dismissed. Society’s shift away from traditional work, life, relationship and sexual expectations for men leaves these struggles largely unaddressed. Challenges such as career pressures, mental health concerns, relationship difficulties and sexual issues are not merely personal burdens—they are symptoms of deeper systemic problems that affect men's well-being.
Sexual dissatisfaction is one area where these broader issues often emerge. It’s not just a standalone problem; it can reflect unmet emotional needs, unaddressed stress, or a lack of connection in other aspects of life. But it can also serve as a gateway to transformation. For some men, addressing sexual well-being can unlock insights and solutions that positively impact their relationships, health, careers and personal growth.
For example, many men—whether in long-term relationships or single—experience loneliness and isolation, especially in midlife. This often manifests as disconnection in intimate relationships. Rather than viewing these challenges as insurmountable, men can learn to use them as opportunities for growth.
Societal expectations often discourage vulnerability, making it harder for men to seek help for anxiety, depression, stress or addiction. These struggles can ripple through all aspects of a man’s life, including his sexual vitality.
In my work with midlife men and couples, I help men identify the root causes of their struggles and create a safe space for them to confront these issues. I support people to see vulnerability as a path to strength and resilience, allowing them to rebuild stronger, more fulfilling connections with partners and loved ones.
The journey to better sexual well-being creates a ripple effect in many other areas of live. Men who take this step often find themselves feeling more connected, confident and equipped to navigate the challenges of midlife.
If you’ve ever felt unseen or misunderstood by your partner, family, friends, or society, know that there is a path forward. Addressing sexual dissatisfaction may be the first step toward a fuller, richer and more balanced life. Together, we can rewrite the narrative, proving that men’s challenges—your challenges—can be seen, understood, supported and transformed into a catalyst for growth and well-being.
I am passionate about helping men and couples discover pleasure as a powerful catalyst for transformational change. Are you ready to join me on this journey? Here’s how…