Hello, I’m Sian Johnson, Sex Coach for Men and Couples
I’m here with a heartfelt invitation to join me on a transformative journey. My mission is to help men break free from the constraints of societal myths and conditioning when it comes to sex, intimacy, desire, and relationships. Together, we’ll unlock the door to fully embodied, pleasure-filled sexual experiences that transcend shame, guilt, and anxiety.
After successfully raising two high-achieving children and building successful careers in the arts, managing community projects, and marketing, I found myself at midlife and at a crossroads. I knew if I was to continue my life as it was, I would head for burnout. Something needed to change, in my career, in my relationships, and in sex. I knew I needed to grow as a person, and while I’ve always had an interest in personal development, I knew it was time to take action and do something positive for me. It was time for me to focus on me and my own growth!
Embarking on a journey of personal development through Tantra was the beginning of a deeply personal healing journey into what is now a highly successful and blossoming career as a Sex Coach and Pleasure Catalyst.
I understand now that my history of difficult or unsatisfactory relationships, sexual trauma and sexual dysfunction, and overcoming these, helped me grow, not just as a person, but as an empowered sexual being, and has provided the building blocks on which I was able to venture into this amazing, innovative and forward-thinking field of Somatic Sexology. Developing my own unique programmes to support men and their lovers in their desire for more pleasure and growth is both humbling and ecstatic.
Although I am a woman, I love and understand men in a way that I couldn’t possibly have done when I was younger. My femininity and my experiences in the world, as a woman, brings a unique perspective to my coaching. Qualities of confidentiality, discretion, nurture, patience, kindness and compassion exist alongside a fierce, loving desire to protect and celebrate men and masculinity.
Each man and each couple has a unique personal development journey towards how they want to experience sex, intimacy, desire and relationships. I am delighted to meet you as you begin yours.
With nearly a decade worth of experience, I have trained with some of the worlds leading authorities in this and related fields of sex and relationships, all geared to support my expertise as a Sex Coach and Pleasure Catalyst. Here are just some of them:
- Jan Day: Living Tantra Training
- Leora Lightwoman: Levels 1-3 and assisting
- ISTA – International School of Temple Arts: Level One
- John Hawken: The Paths of Transformation (2-day intro)
- Bondassage: Professional practitioner certification.
- Seani Love/School of Erotic Mysteries: Practitioner Training in Shadow Tantra
- The Sea School of Embodiment: Sexological Bodywork™
- Betty Martin/School of Consent: Like a Pro for Practitioners.
- John Hawken/Pathways Studios: Transformational Tantra Massage Module one
- Ralph Watson/SPEAKup: 1in50 Coaching Challenge
- CPCAB – Yorkshire Counselling Training: Counselling Skills Levels 2 and 3
- Catherine Hale: Trauma Awareness Training
- Joseph Kramer: Sustained Sexual Arousal
- Betty Martin/School of Consent: Certified Wheel of Consent Facilitator Training
- Barbara Carellas: Urban Tantra Practitioner Training
And my current training:
- SCPTI: Gestalt Relational Psychotherapy (2020-2025)
What I Believe In, Shapes How I Work
If you chose to work with me, it’s important to know that I believe in a sex positive perspective. It’s how I both live and work. This means respecting my own choices and the choices of other people, like you.
My clients know that I do all that I can to encourage them to have healthier attitudes, perspectives, beliefs and behaviours when it comes to sex and pleasure. And I will do the same for you, allowing you the freedom and confidence to step more into playful pleasure and more authentic, groundbreaking sex.
I am driven to help my clients reach their full potential when it comes to self pleasure and sex. I believe in providing a safe space where you can fully experience and connect with your body without expectations, judgement or fear.
When you choose to work with me, I can help you move out of your own head, trust your body’s signals, and communicate your needs, making choices from your body’s desires and wisdom, allowing you to enjoy the success and pleasure in your intimate life that has been lacking!
As Seen In
I have been featured as an expert in my field in a variety of media publications including the following media appearances:
Podcasts
Men Need Empowerment too! Part of The Kinky Coffee Break podcast series with Lex Ryder of Pleasure Rebels. Available on Spotify and on YouTube
Sex, Men and Communication Part of the I Do Consent Podcast series with Jenn Wilson, available on Spotify and in this blog
Healthy Masculinity and Manhood. Part of the Streamlining Diamonds Podcast Series with Peneleapaí Hosted on Holistic Radio
Public Speaking on video
Here are some of the talks I’ve given:
The Sex Lectures Manchester: 4 videos on my You Tube Channel playlist: https://www.youtube.com/@sianjohnsonmenssexcoach
And also here:
Sex Positive Panel Discussions
- My passion for my work and this industry, means I am always looking for ways to help reach more people who are looking to improve for personal growth and to enhance their sex life. So I created and the Sunday Sex School.
- The first series of 8 events ran between January – June 2024, recordings are posted on my You Tube Channel and in this specific playlist
- A 2nd series is coming soon!
Festival Appearances
- Online: Midlife Sex Festival: https://www.midlifesexfestival.com/
- In Person: Ecstatic Dance Festival @Osho Leela – Consent Workshops x2
- In Person: Thrive Festival, Sowerby Bridge: Living Authentically: Escaping The People Pleasing Trap Workshop
Workshops and Events
- I regularly deliver workshops and events based on the groundbreaking and transformative power of The Wheel of Consent
- View past and forthcoming events and appearance
Media Enquiries
- I welcome media enquiries and invitations for blog posts, podcasts, public speaking, and to run events and workshops from 1.5 hours to 5 days.
- Contact me at [email protected]
Professional Memberships
My Professional memberships provide CPD training and frameworks for professional practice including a code of conduct, ethics and accountability, as well practitioner listings