Testimonials
“Lovely to see and work with you again… I really loved the last session. I feel really lucky and honoured to be working with you. I am not sure I would be in the place I am now if I had tried to go it alone. I have felt a real deep appreciation… for the journey so far and look forward to the next session. Thank you.”
“I have been to a number of tantra teachers over the past 6 years. I started going to online sessions with Sian several months ago and have been back on a regular basis. She is one of the very best tantra teachers I have been to. She is friendly, accepting and helpful. She has increased my capacity to experience pleasure enormously. She listens and teaches me what I need. She has a wealth of knowledge and techniques that are so beneficial and pleasurable. She has shown me new kinds of touch that have enhanced my sensual pleasure. Every session includes new learning. What she has taught me has significantly changed my mood, my happiness, and my enjoyment of life. I highly recommend Sian. I wish all humans could learn to experience such joy and pleasure. I also realize people can learn new ways to experience pleasure at any age!”
“I’ve enjoyed working with Sian and have found the course to be very worthwhile. Sian has been great to work with: she is well informed and has many resources at her disposal. She has provided a safe environment to learn, discuss and explore without fear or prejudice. I would recommend Sian to anyone needing help with their relationship issues.” JS
“I just like to say I really enjoyed our session on Friday it just felt really good to finally talk to someone about it and just sharing it felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I was dreading the session before hand, but you put me at ease straight away and the more we did the better I felt. and the work you did about not having shame just felt great.”
“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months 🙂 The whole program has felt life changing to be honest, all the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.”
“My experience of working with you and completing the programme was unique, intriguing and eye-opening. It was a rollercoaster of a learning experience as I never thought having control over ejaculation was even possible yet alone learnable. During my taster session with you and possibly the first and second session into the programme, I did feel this journey was not for me but decided to carry on […] I’m not sure why, but very happy I did. What you have taught me is invaluable and literally life changing, and I will be forever grateful to you for this. I’d like to take this opportunity to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the whole learning experience in helping me achieve my goals and helping me feel empowered in my choices and decisions.
Your teaching style is captivating, and you make the whole experience very enjoyable at the same time informative and to the point. I think what helps the experience even more is you mix your sessions with theory and practice. […] I would 100% recommend you without hesitation.
My medical history was the main reason I took the first step in contacting you. I know first-hand keeping quiet and not addressing erectile or any other sexual issue is not a solution. It has to be spoken about and tackled head on. I know for males this is not an easy subject but given my history […], I was more than willing to come forward and seek help […] Thank you very much for all the help, support and the learning experience.” Rajan 28
“I just completed five sessions with Sian. She is wonderful. She listens and cares. She made very useful and helpful suggestions. She helped me grow and learn in a gentle, positive way. I highly recommend Sian and the knowledge and care she brings to her sessions.”
“Sian is a wonderful guide and mentor. She made me feel at ease from the moment I arrived, and I look forward to continuing my journey under her tutelage. If you are looking to improve or fulfil your intimacy potential, then I heartily recommend Sian’s courses.”
“I have recently completed the 3rd and last level of the Sexual Empowerment program and I wanted to briefly share the experience I had with Sian. I started this program because of some premature ejaculation (PE) issues which can be very hard to solve. There are 3 levels which took about one year to complete considering some pauses between them. I have found this journey with her to be challenging but very positive. The first level especially is quite intense with the exercises, but when you learn at your own pace you gain self confidence which makes the whole difference. Sian gave me the knowledge and tools to be able to overcome PE and take my sexual life to the next step. She is a very nice person, a good listener and a good teacher. The power for change comes from our own self, but it is thanks to people like her that we can look at it and access it for our own growth! Thanks again Sian 🙂”
“I’m messaging you nearly a year from when we last met. […] I wanted to take the opportunity to extend my gratitude to you for the work we undertook together – it was foundational in my journey and the changes have been life changing in my relationships with self and others. The journey continues for myself and I have had the opportunity to undertake further learnings and courses in my development. I hope one day we can work together again.”
“Sian is a delightful person who put me at ease immediately. You can share your problems. I would totally recommend her. She behaves in an utterly professional manner, giving advice and guidance but at the same time being friendly and warm.”
“I actually feel a little sad now that the program is coming to an end ha 🙂 I’ve found you to be very supportive and understanding and also I had such a laugh with you at the same time.”
“Thank you, Sian! For your help and guidance with completing the programme. I received a warm welcome, was listened to and went at a pace I was comfortable with. I learned so much and have improved my confidence, which was one of the main reasons I went ahead with it. I highly recommend working with Sian as she is passionate about what she does, and you can feel she cares.”
“I first reached out to Sian mid -January 2023. I had come out of a turbulent relationship, where being intimate was not fun, but terrifying and unfulfilling all at the same time, where the expectation to perform was unrelenting, even if I did not feel I could. I felt trapped in a cycle of doubt and self-loathing, as if I was merely in intimacy to please women, even if I felt it was wrong, but more than that I had lost my ability to say no, or to ask for things that I found pleasurable or enjoyable, in other words, I had completely dissociated from my emotions and become robotic where intimacy was concerned. Having started a new relationship 4 months earlier and with intimacy having been discussed, I knew I needed to redefine my relationship with intimacy so that I could fall in love with it again and take this into my new relationship.
The first time I came to see Sian, at the end of January, I was nervous about what to expect and how the conversations would go. Sian immediately put me at ease, and the phrase “all of you is welcome” was such a relief to hear, especially when emotions started tumbling out, alongside my tears. Never has a better phrase been spoken as that one to me at that time. Sian explained to me the importance of being in consent, being able to choose and how to move from the feeling of fear into the joyous side of life.
As the programme moved forward, Sian encouraged me every step of the way, moving forward at a pace that was comfortable for me, with no pressure to rush onto the next stage. The homework tasks I was set, were similarly gently paced, whether that be from the deep breathing exercises to feel into myself, to the communication style I was using, to the self-pleasuring exercises and finding out what I found pleasurable or not and how this could change from one time to another (which by the way I found to be a revelation), whilst all the while Sian would be promoting acceptance and enjoyment in anything I experienced, any feelings of shame being broken away, and being encouraged to remember to say maybe or no if something didn’t feel right for me, another huge revelation and a massive confidence booster for me.
By the time I arrived at Stage 3, I felt already more accepting of my likes and dislikes, in terms of being touched, where to be touched, and how I could communicate, but I still had to face my biggest concern, of practising all this with someone else. Sian immediately put me at ease here too, reminding me that it was OK to say stop or no at any point, and there was no rush or expectation for me to do anything. The feeling of building connection through eye-gazing and holding hands really was empowering to me, and when we moved onto the more intimate touching, I felt a calmness and strength that I had never felt before, along with a confidence that I was in the moment and was there to experience and enjoy it, without dissociating in any way. No more doubts, no more second guessing, just a beautiful feeling of happiness.
I worked with Sian on the S.E.P for 20 hours of face-to-face sessions over 7 months, plus time for homework and practice of new techniques between each session. It has been the greatest, most revelatory, confidence-building, empowering 7 months I could have ever wished for. I feel more empowered, confident, and comfortable in my intimacy than ever before and my new relationship is blossoming better than I could have wished for too.
If you are in any doubt about your intimacy, for whatever reason, please come and see Sian. It has done so much for me, and it really can for you too. Remember, all of you is welcome with Sian.
Many thanks Sian,
Adam”
“I’m not going to pretend that Sian’s three-stage programme is easy, or even that it’s entirely enjoyable. It’s one of the most difficult things I’ve ever done in my life. There were times, particularly in the early stages of the Level 1 programme, that I was on the verge of giving up, because I didn’t understand the purpose of what Sian was asking me to do, or where it was leading me, but towards the end of the Level 1 programme it all started to make sense.”
“I just like to say I really enjoyed our session on Friday it just felt really good to finally talk to someone about it and just sharing it felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I was dreading the session before hand, but you put me at ease straight away and the more we did the better I felt. and the work you did about not having shame just felt great.”
“I wanted to say a big thank you for everything you’ve done for me over the last few months 🙂 The whole program has felt life changing to be honest, all the anxiety that I had around intimacy pretty much feels like a thing of the past now. I really don’t know what I’d have done without you.
I imagine it could still take a bit of ‘getting used to’ when it comes to actually sleeping with someone again, but I definitely don’t find the idea of it daunting anymore and definitely don’t feel the need to be relying on alcohol or avoiding sex altogether.”
“The whole programme, which took me seven months to complete, has been completely transformative for me. I’m not the same person I was when I started. It’s been a huge commitment, particularly from the emotional perspective, but I can honestly say that it’s been one of the most worthwhile things I’ve ever done. I now understand why I was held back from forming relationship before. I don’t know what the future will hold, but thanks to Sian I do know that I’m now much better equipped to make the most of it!”
“The work I have done with Sian is excellent and has helped be with all aspects of life and relationships. I now have so much more confidence in everything I do and my Mental Health has improved enormously over the time we have worked together.”
“The principle aim for me undertaking the Sexual Empowerment Programme was to develop better ejaculation choice as I have long felt frustrated by this in all of my relationships but more so in recent years.
Every session has been carefully designed to build on the previous and introduces both practical and emotional skills and challenges. Confronting some of my preconceived thoughts have been difficult but Sian’s incredible understanding and caring approach enables this in an effective and enjoyable way.
I have learnt so much during the Programme and it has introduced many techniques and strategies to help address my premature ejaculation. The simple touch exercises have given me an understanding of the nuances of being touched and touching. I had no idea that self-pleasure could be so fulfilling having previously thought it was always a poor second and perhaps not the real thing. I have also gained a huge amount of confidence in knowing and asking for what I want within a consensual relationship.
The Programme was a rollercoaster of emotions and sometimes frustrating but what a great way to learn and Sian is the perfect teacher – always patient, always kind and always fun. Thank you.”